The Paradox of True Humility
Discover how authentic humility can become your secret weapon for enhanced leadership influence and lasting impact.
C.S. Lewis (1898-1963), renowned British author and Christian apologist, penned this insight during the mid-20th century when he was at Oxford University. The quote appears in his work Mere Christianity, written during World War II when Lewis was giving radio talks to boost British morale. Having transformed from atheism to Christianity, Lewis understood how true humility differs from self-deprecation. This perspective was particularly powerful coming from a respected academic who had experienced both intellectual pride and genuine humility, making him uniquely qualified to distinguish between false modesty and authentic humble leadership.
The core principle here is "Servant Leadership Through Self-Forgetfulness." This differs from traditional views of humility as self-deprecation. Instead, it advocates for a leadership style where the focus shifts from self-preoccupation to others' needs and growth.
Consider a senior executive who, instead of dominating meetings with their opinions, creates space for team members to contribute ideas. They don't diminish their expertise but channel it into developing others. Their meetings become collaborative innovation sessions rather than one-person shows.
Another principle is "Confidence Without Ego." This balance allows leaders to acknowledge their capabilities while remaining focused on their mission and team's success rather than personal glory.
Philippians 2:3-4 perfectly aligns with Lewis's insight: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." This scripture reinforces that true humility isn't about self-deprecation but about being so confident in your identity that you can focus outward. Jesus himself modeled this by washing his disciples' feet – not diminishing his authority but demonstrating servant leadership.
I once worked with a CEO who struggled with micromanagement and burnout. Through our coaching relationship, she discovered that her need for control stemmed from self-focused insecurity. As she embraced true humility, she began empowering her team more, focusing on their development rather than proving her worth. Team productivity increased, innovation flourished, and she found renewed energy and satisfaction in her role.
Reflection Questions:
How much of your mental energy is spent thinking about your image, performance, or status?
What would change in your leadership if you shifted that energy toward others' growth and success?
Where might your self-focus be limiting your team's potential or your organization's growth?
How could embracing true humility actually increase your leadership influence?
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