Becoming versus Achieving

Willard's observation that personal transformation matters more than achievements challenges us to shift our focus from what we accomplish to who we are becoming.

Dallas Willard shared this insight during his time as a philosophy professor at USC and while writing his influential book The Divine Conspiracy (1998). This quote emerged from his observations of how society often prioritizes external achievements over internal transformation. Willard noticed that many of his successful students and colleagues had impressive resumes but struggled with personal fulfillment and character development. This realization led him to emphasize the importance of spiritual and personal formation over mere accomplishments.

To put this truth into action, consider implementing daily reflection practices that focus on character growth rather than just task completion. For example, instead of only celebrating closing a big deal at work, reflect on how you handled the negotiation process with integrity. Rather than solely tracking your fitness goals, notice how the discipline of regular exercise is shaping your willpower and determination. When mentoring others, focus conversations on their personal growth journey rather than just their career advancement. Create opportunities for deep, meaningful relationships that challenge you to become a better person.

This aligns beautifully with 2 Corinthians 3:18: "And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit." This verse emphasizes the progressive nature of personal transformation and highlights that true change comes from focusing on God's character rather than our achievements. It reminds us that becoming more like Christ is the ultimate measure of success.

Take time this week to evaluate your personal growth journey. Consider these questions:

· What character qualities am I actively developing right now?

· How am I measuring success beyond my accomplishments?

· Who in my life can provide honest feedback about my personal growth?

· What daily habits am I implementing that shape who I'm becoming?

· In what areas do I need to shift focus from achieving to becoming?

Schedule a quiet hour this week specifically dedicated to reflecting on these questions and creating a personal development plan that emphasizes character growth over achievement. Would you like to discuss your reflections and plan with a mentor or coach who can help guide your transformation journey?